Does your significant other…
Embarrass you with bad names or put-downs?
Always criticize you?
Make you feel like you can never do anything right?
Tell you that no one else would want to be with you?
Look at you or act in ways that scare you?
Control what you do, who you see, who you talk to or where you go?
Stop you from seeing or talking to friends or family?
Always wants to know where you’ve been and who you’ve been with?
Get really jealous or possessive of you?
Have a really bad temper? Become enraged at you or others?
Constantly check up on you or have their friends or family check up on you?
Make all the decisions and ignore your input?
Take your money or make you ask for money?
Make you feel afraid to disagree? Make you feel afraid to break up?
Accuse you of cheating?
Smother you or act like they do not trust you?
Destroy your property or threaten to do so?
Break things or throw things at you?
Force or pressure you into having sex or going further than you want to?
Threaten to hurt you or someone you care about?
Intimidate you with guns, knives or other weapons?
Hit, kick, push, shove, punch, slap, hold you down or hurt you in any way?
Do you feel like you are the only one who understands him (or her) or can help him (or her)?
Are you constantly apologizing for your partner’s behavior, especially when you have been treated badly?